Listening
Written on 11:17 PM by Moobells
When 2 persons communicate, many a times, one just need to be heard and the other just need to listen. The speaker usually already know what will be their solution but just need an affirmation from another. This is the same with counselling. Dear, I do not know how to tell you but the counsellors are not here to solve your problem, they are also not in the position to give you the best solution to your problem, they are not judges so they do not judge what is right or what is wrong and who is good and who is bad. They merely just facilitate the communication, to guide you into conversation, to communicate in a positive way that will enhance the relationship. If you just want an answer, just want someone to take your side, so afraid that people will judge you then it won't help you at all. The choice is yours.
Tags : Advice, Communication, Counselling, Marriage, Relationship
