All about Winning
Written on 2:08 PM by Moobells
So after a tiff and make up with MooCow (as usual), he gave me his usual manja and asked why he always never win. And my reply was cause if he ever wins, it spells the end of our relationship. Before you jump into the conclusion that Moi, Missy MooBells is such a tyrant and feminist that doesnt allow her MAN to win, not even once, please hear Moi. Cause even when it always seems that MooCow lost, he was actually winning and the price, of course, is MY HEART. And so Men, read carefully, the winning part is showing whether you care enough for this relationship to give in and compromise, to be the first one to say sorry even if she was in the wrong.
So I explained to MooCow that if it comes a day when he wants to win at all cause and not even want to compromise and accommodate, it will be point when he is sick and tired with the relationship and just want to win. It's the time when he starts to put himself first in front of me instead of me. Just that if I am always bend to win all the fights we had, the relationship will not work out too. To be in the relationship, both parties will need to take the continuous and conscious step to put each other before self, to put two in front of one. It's not about winning, it's about her, it's about him.
Tags : Argument, Advice, Marriage, Relationship
